A year or so ago at a meeting of the Aspen Institute, Larry Summers gave a talk in which he was asked about the representation of him in the film The Social Network, and he told a story about the Winklevoss twins which went something like this:

I learned a long time ago that if a student is wearing a suit on Tuesday afternoon, they either have a job interview or they are an asshole.

(Long pause…)

When I saw the video of that interview, which was conducted by Walter Isaacson, I was stunned that a former president of Harvard would refer to students as assholes—though I shouldn’t have been: in Harvard Rules, I recounted the story of how, on several occasions while president, Summers referred to student Zayed Yasin as a “little shit.”

But at least that sneering putdown occurred in relative privacy, at small gatherings; Summers called the Winklevosses assholes in a semi-public forum which was also being filmed.

So at this Asia Society talk on December 5th, interviewer Karen Fineman of CNBC asked him that same tired question about The Social Network.

And Summers repeated about three stories that he has told previously, including that one about the Winklevoss twins; the only difference was that this time he referred to them as “jerks” rather than assholes.

(He also calls them the “Winklevi,” which is their pop culture nickname, but again—inappropriate for a former president of the world’s greatest university.)

I really don’t see how an act of respect—getting dressed up to see the president of Harvard—could be interpreted as evidence of being an asshole or a jerk. What a bitter and jaded mind that interpretation suggests.

But even if that’s your take on what is intended to be a compliment, keep it to yourself. Otherwise, you not only come away looking like the jerk, but you dishonor your former office—that office to which the Winklevosses were showing their respect.

The Winklevosses aren’t always the most sympathetic characters, but that’s irrelevant. A president of Harvard should have grace. Larry Summers has none. That’s a big reason why he’s no longer president of Harvard.

I’d like to see Summers tell that story when the Winklevosses are in the room. I expect he wouldn’t. Bullies are too scared to say it to someone’s face…