Boston Magazine did a poll about what Boston men and women are looking for in a mate. Or at least someone they’d like to know for a few hours.

Harvard tops the list of sizzling alma maters for men (19%) and women (12%), followed by BU (8%/10%). But about half of you say it doesn’t matter where a potential S.O. went to college as long as they graduated.

On the other hand, if you’re a man with a cat…fuhgeddaboutit.